Dating

Looking for low effort stuff that makes a noticeable difference, not like a whole makeover. Any tips?

I’m curious to hear from both men and women: do you feel like dating has changed when it comes to effort? It seems like a lot of people feel that the little things have disappeared like checking in, sending a good morning text, making plans, showing genuine interest, or simply…

My dad used to say that a guy can't really help being drawn to women, betting, or booze. He figured that what starts as just checking things out can turn into a regular thing, and for some, a real problem. Even if it doesn't get that bad, those things can creep into your life…

Not judging anyone: people can want what they want. But I'm curious what you've decoded as code for something else. Examples: "beat me at golf" / "travel" / "take me to a concert!" = have money "traditional" = conservative

You know those things people always warn you about when you're younger, and you just roll your eyes thinking 'whatever.' Then one day it hits you and you realize they were right all along. What's that one thing for you?

I just started dating after being single for a while, and honestly, the first thing I wish someone told me is that it’s okay to be awkward and not know what you’re doing. Everyone fumbles through it at first, so don’t put too much pressure on yourself to be perfect. What’s one…

I've been on maybe thirty dates this year and honestly, the best ones were the ones where we both admitted we'd rather be home reading. The whole performance of it just drains the fun out of meeting someone.

Peer pressure and a desperate need to feel validated by strangers.