Transcrição (en)

last summer you called off your engagement it was a choice that i needed to make to be happy how did you know you made the right decision to end a engagement as far as the public side of it goes i've had people write about my breakups before so it's not that big of a deal this is also my second engagement that i called off the first one i don't know if you could count the first one it was real to me even though we were strung out on drugs and the ring was one that he bought with my money without me knowing it was still like the love was so real for me and that that first one. There were times where I did try and end it, but there was this little voice being like, but what if, however long down the line, this is a voice that a lot of us have of, if I just hung in there a little bit longer, it would have gotten better. And so I'm the person that needs to be sure, even though I have a therapist, like a clinical psychologist, a coach. I have, you know, I had got a whole council of people, friends that know a lot about relationships and all the things that I was going through in life at the time that are like, honey. And asking me the right questions of like, why would you stay? And my answers weren't good enough. My answers weren't good enough. Just because I've realized just because someone is a good person doesn't mean they're my person. And I have to be happy. And I realized that my non-negotiables are allowed to be non-negotiables. And if these big major needs are not being met, it doesn't matter that you're a good person and you're not going to cheat on me. That's not a reason to stay.