Nikki Glaser clarified that what many women call a 'rape fantasy' isn't about actual non-consent. She explains the dynamic is actually consensual non consent, or CNC, because no one wants to be violated by someone they aren't attracted to. It's role-playing where you can stop anytime with a safe word. Glaser noted she learned this on Reddit in the sex subreddit, where it's common for women to want things like being choked, bossed around, or having hair pulled done only by people they desire.